So it seems you're a girl who is really having a sad case of the feelings for a person you are trying not to have feelings for, your bestie, your secret crush, your best friend's boyfriend who seems to spend a lot of time with you, and you don't know why he would do such a thing when he has a perfectly nice girl who loves him unconditionally. You know, that guy or gal you're really feeling, that makes your heart flutter when they say hi to you.
I see that you're thinking of finally confessing to this person, after so much started happening between the two of you. Yoli is here to tell you to do it. DO IT!
Yes, overused GIF, I'm not blind.
But here's really what I'm trying to say, we as girls, women, ladies, gals, or whatever, shouldn't be sitting around waiting around for a prince charming. From my experience with Abby, I can honestly say there was a point where I was doubting myself, thinking this could easily fuck everything up. I think it's given that we never want to lose a friend because of conflicting emotions, which is why we call feelings a disease, right?
Anyway, We're not talking about me, but we are talking about people who have been waiting for the crush to say something first. You do it first, but here's my sound advice for dealing with rejection or that "I don't know, I need time" LOWER YOUR STANDARDS! My standards are so low that there's literally not a single person around me that meets them.
Ok, maybe don't lower the standards, but I do say this, prepare yourself for every single possible answer. Crush says no way, You simply agree, cry when you get home, because that bitch does not deserve to see you cry, you know if you feel you need to cry.
If Crush says I don't see you that way, it's gonna be tough. This person will still be in your life, but you might need to give yourself some distance to try and recollect yourself, before you feel ready to really continue that friendship. And if you're anything like me, keep your Tinder profile super active, swipe right on everyone and a half, Prince Charming is bound to be there once you push past the sea of dick pics and inappropriate messages.
I don't know what to tell you if your crush says yes, but I'm assuming you'd be happy. Go for it, be happy for as long as you two are happy.
I should get more serious. What I'm saying is that we shouldn't be afraid to say what we really feel, there's a possibility that we're letting these wonderful opportunities to fall in love slip through our fingers because we were waiting for them to say it first. And maybe there will be a time when you finally find the courage to actually confess, and you get rejected by that one you thought would bring you happiness and maybe three kids, moving on can be hard, but being hard on yourself is harder.
Get it out of the way and be happy with you!
Good night, my lovelies!
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